Dante was a sixteen year old high school sophomore who was manifesting more than a few alcohol-related difficulties at school. As a result, the principal told him that he had to see Miss Johnson, the school counselor, before he would be permitted to come back to school.
Later that afternoon when Dante went home after school, he had to explain his school expulsion to his Mother and Father. His Mother and Father were “old school” and explained to Dante that dropping out of school was not a doable educational plan of action. They told Dante that failing to graduate from high school would probably be like a lead weight around his legs that could probably impair his educational attainment for the rest of his adult life. In addition, Dante’s Mother and Father were very disturbed that he was drinking in the first place and drinking with his friends in the second.
His Mother and Father explained to Dante that although he may be a teen, he needs to comprehend fairly promptly that drinking is the road to ill health, failure, pain, and financial problems.
It was evident that his Mother and Father were completely in agreement with Dante’s principal and informed Dante that he had better make plans to see Miss Johnson, the school counselor. After his talk with his parents, Dante at long last agreed to see Miss Johnson the next day. So Dante called the school and made an appointment to see Miss Johnson the next afternoon after school.
The Psychologist Asks Dante if He Understands Why His Recent Alcohol-Related Activities Caused Quite a Bit of Concern By the School Administrators
When Dante got to his scheduled appointment with Miss Johnson, she immediately reviewed all of the alcohol-related issues Dante had gotten into and asked him if he knew why his recent alcohol-related behavior caused quite a bit of anxiety by the school administrators.
Quite candidly, Dante was not sure why the principal suggested that he see a school therapist. As he stated to Miss Johnson, why should he see a professional psychologist about his drinking situation? Because virtually all of his friends drink about as much as he does, drinking really shouldn’t be such a big thing. Stated more precisely, if nearly everybody is drinking, why is this such a big deal?
Miss Johnson asked Dante when he started to drink alcoholic beverages. He said that some of his older classmates introduced him to drinking wine when he was twelve or thirteen years old and getting ready to enter the seventh grade.
Miss Johnson informed Dante that while his pals may indeed drink as much as he does and that they may be an unhealthy influence on him, the facts are that he is the one who is getting removed from school due to alcohol-related delinquency, absenteeism, and fighting, not his friends. In addition, Miss Johnson also stressed the fact that Dante, and not his friends, is the one who is failing and who is missing one day of school every week due to his alcohol related problems. Lastly, Miss Johnson underscored the fact that due to his drinking situation, Dante is getting into a dangerous cycle of excessive drinking that can at the end of the day wreck his dreams, hopes, and aspirations.
In a word, Dante’s involvement with teenage alcohol abuse was starting to thwart his ability to function as an accountable young man. As stated by Miss Johnson, “Just because most of your pals drink beer, hard liquor, wine coolers, or wine does not mean that it is the healthiest thing for you.”
Dante Learns That Ultimately He Must Be Accountable For Himself In Order to Avoid Destructive, Unhealthy, Damaging, and Dangerous Situations Down the Road
Miss Johnson explained to Dante that one’s buddies can undoubtedly influence a person in an unhealthy way, but that the individual himself or herself has to eventually be accountable for himself or herself in order to keep away from damaging, destructive, dangerous, and unhealthy outcomes down the road.
Luckily, Miss Johnson was very well equipped for her scheduled meeting with Dante. She showed him research studies and reports she had underlined that listed different drinking statistics and facts that applied to most people in general. Then she showed Dante a lot of figures and reports that applied mainly to underage drinkers.
For example, Miss Johnson stressed the difference between alcohol dependency and alcohol abuse and told Dante that individuals who continue to drink in a hazardous manner habitually become dependent on alcohol.
Miss Johnson also articulated the concept of binge drinking which she defined as follows: drinking five or more drinks in one sitting for males and consuming four or more drinks in one sitting for females.
The Psychologist Verbalizes Several Alcohol Dependency and Alcohol Abuse Facts and Statistics
Then Miss Johnson listed various alcohol facts and the following eight alcohol abuse statistics:
1. According to one study, just about 11% of 8th-graders, 22% of 10th-graders, and 27% of 12th-graders stated that they involved themselves in abusive drinking.
2. Between 48% and 64% of the people who die in fires have blood alcohol levels demonstrating inebriation.
3. Children who are drinking alcohol by 7th grade are more likely to manifest substance abuse, delinquent behavior, and academic problems in both junior high school and high school.
4. In the U.S., 33% of all suicides, and 25% of all emergency room admissions are alcohol-related.
5. In the United States among drivers between the ages of 15 and 20, fatal accidents involving a single vehicle at night are three times more likely to be related to alcohol than to other fatal accidents.
6. In the U.S., more than 40 percent of the individuals who begin drinking before the age of 13 will develop alcohol abuse or alcohol addiction at some point in their lives.
7. In the U.S, by the time they are seniors in high school, 80% of teenagers have tried alcohol and 62% have been intoxicated.
8. Treatment for alcoholism has been demonstrated to decrease criminal activity up to 80% among long-term offenders, has increased their rate of employment, decreased their homelessness, and reduced their health care costs.
Dante Gets A Much Needed Primer on the Facts Regarding the Short Term and the Long Term Outcomes of Youth Alcohol Dependency and Alcohol Abuse
After Miss Johnson stated the aforementioned alcohol abuse and alcoholism facts and statistics, it was evident that what Miss Johnson disclosed to Dante was a real source of discovery for him. Why? Because for the first time in his young life, someone not only made the effort to give an explanation of the long term and the short term consequences of alcohol abuse and alcoholism, but she also took the time to verify what she was saying with alcohol dependency and alcohol abuse statistics and facts that related to people in general, and mainly to young people.
In actual fact, it was almost as if a light went on and Dante without pause comprehended why he should not be engaging in hazardous and excessive drinking with or without his buddies anymore. Dante thanked Miss Johnson for her concern and for the material she reviewed.
Miss Johnson then asked Dante how he felt about getting a physical examination and an alcohol appraisal for the alcohol abuse or alcohol addiction rehabilitation he would probably need.
Dante thought about this for a minute and then agreed to get a comprehensive physical examination and to go through a comprehensive appraisal of his drinking circumstances so that he could start an alcohol rehab program promptly.